Jude AgbayaniMy husband and I are blessed to have a boy and a girl. When I was pregnant with Coby, we prayed that it would be a boy. God blessed us with a happy baby boy. The second time we found out we were having another child, we again prayed for a girl to complete the Brady Bunch. In His graciousness God gave us our little princess.
Two different individuals coming from the same parents. Indeed each child is unique. No one is exactly the same. Even twins are not exactly the same. We, as parents, should celebrate their differences. Our kids were created wonderfully and fearfully by our Creator, of course, including us.
Just for fun I wanted to look at how different our two kids are…
During my pregnancy…I gained so much weight when i was pregnant with Coby and had not much morning sickness but with Jianne, I was skinny and had a sensitive first trimester.
Breast feeding… Coby was breast fed for only two to three months while Jianne was at it until she was almost three years old.
Putting the baby to sleep… Coby easily gets startled with the slightest noise and has trouble falling asleep while Jianne will easily fall asleep while being breastfed.
Language skills… Both started talking early by age one.
Love language… Coby feels loved when you do something for him. He appreciates you when you put syrup on his pancake. He feels loved when you prepare food for him or make him anything. His
love language is service. Jianne on the other hand is very clingy, very attached. She enjoys hugs, kisses, scratching her back and brushing her hair. She craves physical touch as she herself generously showers you with hugs and squeezes.
Food… Coby enjoys gourmet dishes. He wants sophisticated food at times. He does not like “lutong Bahay”. He would always request that we eat in restaurants or asks me to prepare something different. He eats a lot when dining out. He calls himself a “fruitatarian” because he loves all kinds of fruits. Jianne craves for sinigang, nilaga, typical pinoy dishes but does not eat much when we eat out. She does not care much fruit except for mango and banana but would finish the okra in sinigang and eat broccoli with her fingers.
Coby is the talker in the family. His voice would always fill the house. Jianne is quiet, a bit reserved, quite shy too.
Learning style…Coby is a visual learner. He learns best with visually attractive curriculum and materials. Maybe that’s why he is into art. He paints and draws well too. I still have to find out Jianne’s primary learning style but I could see that she may be an auditory or kinesthetic learner. She loves music and dancing.
There are still a lot more waiting to be discovered from these two blessings. I just pray that God would allow me to witness all their milestones in life. I also pray that despite their differences, they would continue to love each other no matter what and wherever God takes them.
